Tuesday, September 30, 2008

Back To Square One...Back to Love

Whats the difference between falling in love and marrying sumone???

 As far as i know ppl see both as completely different cases.Majority of the people I know don think that the people they love are the ones they intend to marry...Falling in love is easy,telling sumone u love....but Marriage is a completely different situation...It means lifelong committment,understanding and obviously love.

U may fall out of love easily coz gettin into a relationship is relatively easy but maintaining it is very very hard. 

 U can have a crush on anyone cute...get infatuated but the real thing is....quite different...Its one thing to hang around with sumone cool but to spent a lifetime with them wud sometimes bore you...

(01.10.08)

 Physical attraction is not to be misunderstood with love...Physical love is just passion...and it cannot be taken for granted... coz people change..their interests change...To love is with the heart and all the rest will follow... 

 LOVE deals with FANTASY,LIFE IS REALITY...

 People want some one nice, some one kind...lovable,understanding n most of all a good listener. I would prefer sumone with kind eyes...ones with a twinkle in their eyes...coz i believe that eyes speak out whats in ur heart...I always speak to people lookin at their eyes n i judge people by their eyes...Eyes always speak the truth...So be wary when u lie to me...

 People want partnes who wud make them feel secure...who they r comfortable with...at ease always...Its the feel free factor...Partners who do not dominate...allow them to be independent...mutually respect each others opinion n ideas... 

Life is short n it is maybe just once we get to live it(I'm not sure I believe in re births)...So...its better to make the right choice n give no chance for regrets later...

N I'm sure for every Adam on earth, there's an Eve...For Every Krishna is born a Radha n A Laila for all Majnu's...to love eternally...till death and after...

 

4 comments:

Joker..... said...

its great except the last line... u dint have to say that... the truth is nobody's waiting for anyone..... all are just expecting someone.. waiting is a patient act... expecting is an impatient act.. and believe me... this is the most impatient one can get.... expecting somebody

Devil said...

i totaly agree wit the joker and i hate it when he's rite..i mean cud this BE anymore desperate..but " U can have a crush on anyone cute...get infatuated but the real thing is....quite different...Its one thing to hang around with sumone cool but to spent a lifetime with them wud sometimes bore you..."
excelent point...i mean its like they say.."before marriage u know wat you want and after marriage you'll know wat u don want"

Devil said...

u know wats weird abt that new last sentence?? krishna never married radha..

Bala said...

During the course of love, our eyes become half blind.. It just see the positives in the person we love... Even the partner will show his/her positives during that time... A feeling of limited right exixts within their hearts...

But once married, a feeling of full right stems up in them and shows their full face... So to walk together all throught the life along the bridge of marraige, the partners has to have a much understanding, care for each other, respect for each other's feelings wrapped by whole lot of L.O.V.E.